Last time we were in Matthew 24 and Mark 12, where a poor widow walked into the temple with two small coins and Jesus said she gave more than everyone else combined. We talked about how God never measures the amount but always looks at what's left afterward. And we moved into Jesus' teaching on the end times on the Mount of Olives, where He didn't lead with fear but with faithfulness, closing with this: He's not revealing the future to scare you. He's revealing it to steady you. If you missed that lesson, go back and read it before continuing here.
Today we stay in that same conversation because Jesus isn't finished answering the disciples' questions. And what He says next is the most personal part of the whole discussion.
What if Jesus came tonight?
Not someday. Not in some distant theological future you don't have to think about yet.
Tonight.
Would you feel ready? Or would there be something unfinished sitting in the back of your mind? Something you've been meaning to do, a conversation you've put off, a step of faith you've been circling without taking, a person you've been meaning to check on?
Jesus asks that question not to create panic but to create clarity. And in Matthew 25 He tells three parables that together answer one of the most important questions a person can sit with:
How do we actually prepare to meet Him?
The Oil You Cannot Borrow
The first parable describes ten people waiting for a bridegroom to arrive. All ten have lamps. All ten are in the right place, expecting the same thing, part of the same gathering. But when the bridegroom finally comes, only five of them have oil to keep their lamps burning. The other five ran out and had to go find more. And while they were gone:
"The door was shut." Matthew 25:10 (NIV)
I remember a season in my life when I had an exam coming up and I kept telling myself I would prepare later. Later stretched out until it was the night before. And sitting there in the dark hours trying to cram everything in at once, I knew deep down that I wasn't ready. Not because I was incapable but because I had made a choice every day leading up to that moment, and the choices had accumulated into a result I couldn't reverse overnight.
That feeling, that sinking quiet realization, is exactly what this parable is pointing at.
The oil in this story represents something that cannot be borrowed or transferred or obtained at the last minute from someone who has more than you. It is built daily. Through prayer that becomes a habit rather than an emergency measure. Through Scripture that shapes you slowly over time rather than being grabbed in a crisis. Through faithfulness practiced in small ordinary moments long before any dramatic moment arrives.
You cannot cram spiritual readiness the night before.
The preparation is the life you're living right now.
What Did You Do With What You Were Given?
The second parable shifts from readiness to responsibility.
A master goes on a journey and entrusts his servants with different amounts, each according to their ability. Two of the servants put what they were given to work. One buries his in the ground and waits for the master to return so he can hand it back exactly as he received it.
The two who acted hear something worth everything:
"Well done, good and faithful servant." Matthew 25:21 (NIV)
The one who buried his hears something that cuts right to the heart of what went wrong:
"You wicked, lazy servant." Matthew 25:26 (NIV)
I want to be honest about something here. There was a time when I felt prompted to step into something and I held back. I told myself I wasn't ready. That I needed more time, more preparation, more certainty before I could move.
But sitting with it honestly, the truth was simpler than that. I was afraid. And fear dressed itself up as wisdom so I wouldn't have to confront it directly.
What this parable makes clear is that the servants who acted weren't perfect. They weren't the most qualified or the most experienced. They were willing. They took what they had been given and they moved with it. And that willingness was what the master honored when he returned.
God is not measuring you against anyone else. He is not comparing your gifts to someone else's gifts or your calling to someone else's calling. He is asking one question that is completely personal:
What did you do with what I gave you?
Not what someone else did with more. What you did with yours.
Love That Doesn't Know It's Being Watched
The third parable is the most searching of the three and the one that tends to sit with people the longest after they've read it.
Jesus describes the final judgment as a separation of sheep and goats. And the criterion He uses to separate them is not theological knowledge or religious performance or the impressiveness of their spiritual resume. It's something much more ordinary than any of that:
How did they treat people?
"Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me." Matthew 25:40 (NIV)
And the remarkable thing about the people on the right side of that separation is their response. They're not claiming credit for grand acts of service. They're genuinely surprised. They don't remember doing anything particularly significant. They fed someone who was hungry. They visited someone who was lonely. They noticed someone who had been overlooked.
They loved people in small ordinary moments without keeping a record of it.
I think about some of the simplest things I've done that turned out to matter more than I realized. Holding a door. Sending a message to check on someone. Sitting with a person who needed someone to just be present. Nothing dramatic. Nothing that would make a highlight reel.
But in God's economy, love is never small. The cup of cold water given to someone who needed it is not a footnote. It is seen. It is remembered. It is treated as though it was given to Christ Himself.
Because in a way that goes beyond what we can fully understand, it was.
The Invitation That Came When I Felt Least Worthy
I want to close with something personal.
There was a moment in my life when I sat with all of this, the oil, the talents, the sheep and the goats, and felt the weight of every place I had fallen short. Every season of unpreparedness. Every gift left buried. Every person I walked past when I could have stopped.
And what I felt from Christ in that moment was not what I expected.
It wasn't condemnation. It wasn't a list of failures read back to me. It was an invitation. Quiet and direct and completely undeserved:
Come.
Not because I had done enough impressive things. Not because my record was clean. Because I was willing to turn toward Him and keep going.
That is His grace. Not grace for the people who have it together. Grace for the people who are honest about where they've fallen short and willing to take the next faithful step anyway.
Three Things That Actually Prepare You
Matthew 25 doesn't leave the question abstract. It answers it through three concrete pictures that belong together:
Live faithfully. Not dramatically. Not impressively. Faithfully. The daily prayer. The consistent obedience. The oil that accumulates slowly through a life oriented toward Him.
Grow consistently. Take what you've been given and move with it. Don't bury it in the ground of fear or comparison or waiting until you feel more ready than you do right now. Willing is enough to start.
Love the people around you. Not the people it's convenient to love or impressive to be seen loving. The overlooked ones. The ones who can't repay you. The ones sitting in your ordinary Tuesday who just need someone to notice them.
Because one day you will meet Him.
And when you do, the things you'll be grateful for won't be the spectacular moments. They'll be the faithful ones. The cup of water. The visited friend. The step of faith you took when you were afraid. The oil you built up quietly over years of ordinary devotion.
Stay ready. Stay faithful.
And trust that even now, Christ is preparing you to meet Him.
Thanks for reading along with Gospel First. Come back next time as we continue our study through the Gospels. If today's lesson stirred something in you about readiness or faithfulness or love, share it with someone who needs to hear that willing is enough to start. God bless.
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